you don’t have to carry this alone
Therapy for Trauma in California
Unresolved trauma doesn’t just disappear- it shows up in moments that matter most.
Does it feel like old wounds are showing up in how you parent?
You find yourself reacting in ways that don’t feel like you- snapping, shutting down, or feeling overwhelmed by your child’s emotions. Maybe your own needs were dismissed growing up, and now you’re struggling to meet your child’s needs without abandoning yourself in the process. The patterns you’re trying to break are real, and the emotional weight of doing it differently is heavy. It makes sense that parenting is stirring up pain from the past- because this time, you’re trying to do it with intention.
This isn’t about blaming your past- it’s about understanding how it still lives in your body, your reactions, and your relationships. When trauma goes unprocessed, it can feel like you’re parenting with a raw, exposed nerve. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. Therapy can help you make sense of where these responses come from, so you can parent with more awareness, compassion, and emotional safety- for both your child and yourself.
Here’s the thing- it’s not always a “big” trauma
Trauma can include quieter wounds from childhood- emotional neglect, pressure to be perfect, or the feeling of never being truly seen
because your needs are just as important.
You’re allowed to put yourself first and prioritize your healing.
You’ve spent so much time caring for others, holding it all together, and putting your own needs last. But your healing matters because you matter. Prioritizing yourself isn’t selfish; it’s a necessary step toward breaking old patterns, showing up more fully, and feeling like yourself again. Therapy is a space where you get to be held, supported, and seen.
Feel familiar?
You feel triggered by your child’s big emotions and don’t always know why.
You swing between trying to be the perfect parent and feeling like you’re failing.
You struggle to set boundaries without guilt or find yourself overcorrecting.
Your terrified of repeating patterns you grew up with, but don’t know how to stop them.
Healing is possible- even if you’ve felt stuck for years
Therapy for trauma can help you feel calmer, clearer, and more whole.
Trauma can leave you feeling stuck in survival mode- always on edge, emotionally reactive, or disconnected from yourself and others. You might find yourself repeating patterns you promised to break or reacting in ways that don’t feel like you. It’s exhausting trying to keep it all together while your nervous system stays on high alert, and even small moments of peace can feel out of reach.
Therapy offers a space to gently untangle what’s been buried or ignored, at a pace that feels safe. Together, we’ll work to process what happened, understand how it’s showing up now, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and trust- both in your body and in your life. You don’t have to stay in survival mode. Healing is possible, and it starts with feeling calmer, clearer, and more whole.
What we’ll work on
Imagine a life where…
01 you feel safe in your own body and trust your responses
No more bracing for the next emotional blow- you move through your days with more calm and self-trust.
02 you can set boundaries without guilt or fear
You stop over-explaining and trying to please everyone and instead start protecting your peace- because you finally believe your needs matter too.
03 you respond with thoughtfully and intentionally, not with reactivity.
You no longer feel hijacked by old patterns and start showing up with intention in your relationships and parenting.
You don’t have to keep living in survival mode.
Your healing is possible and you don’t have to do it alone.
Questions?
FAQs
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Not at all. Trauma isn’t always about one big, obvious event- it can come from emotional neglect, chronic stress, parentification, or never feeling safe or supported. If parts of your past still affect how you feel, think, or respond today, therapy can help. You deserve support, even if your trauma feels “small” or hard to name.
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If you feel easily triggered, shut down emotionally, react more intensely than you want to, or struggle to feel safe in your body or relationships, unresolved trauma could be at the root. Many moms realize their past is showing up in their parenting, partnerships, or self-worth. You don’t have to have all the answers- therapy is a space to explore what’s coming up with care and curiosity.
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Only if and when you’re ready. Trauma therapy (especially with approaches like EMDR) doesn’t require you to re-tell or re-live every detail. You’re always in control of the pace, and your emotional safety is the top priority. We’ll focus on helping you feel more grounded and resourced first.
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Yes, I’m certified in EMDR Therapy and often use in in my treatment. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) helps your brain and body reprocess traumatic experiences so they feel less charged, overwhelming, or stuck. It allows you to heal without needing to explain or relive everything in detail. Many clients find EMDR incredibly effective in reducing emotional reactivity and shifting long-held beliefs about themselves.
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Yes- healing trauma often leads to more presence, patience, and emotional availability in relationships. When you work through the past, you create space to respond instead of react, set boundaries with more confidence, and show up in ways that feel more aligned with the kind of parent or partner you want to be. It’s not just about healing yourself- it’s about changing the patterns for future generations.
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