The Mental Load Overload: Understanding How You Got Here
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The Mental Load Overload: Understanding How You Got Here

You didn’t start your relationship this way but somewhere along the line, you became the default parent, the household manager, the knower of all the things. Now you’re drowning in the mental load, and wondering how it got so heavy. This blog unpacks how seemingly “fair” partnerships shift over time, especially in motherhood, and why so many moms feel overwhelmed and unseen. If you’re tired of carrying it all, this post is for you- plus, learn how our new Mental Load Coaching for Couples can help you find balance and real support again.

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Will I Ever Feel Better in Postpartum? Understanding Why You’re Still Struggling- And What Can Actually Help
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Will I Ever Feel Better in Postpartum? Understanding Why You’re Still Struggling- And What Can Actually Help

Still waiting to “feel better” after having your baby? You’re not alone and you’re not doing anything wrong. This post breaks down why postpartum can feel so overwhelming for so long, and what real healing looks like. If you’re tired of just surviving, this is for you.

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The Mental Load Is Breaking Moms: What It Is, Why It Feels So Heavy and What You Can Do About It
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The Mental Load Is Breaking Moms: What It Is, Why It Feels So Heavy and What You Can Do About It

Are you exhausted from being the one who “keeps it all together”? You’re not imagining it- the mental load moms carry is very real, and it’s taking a toll on your mental health, relationships, and sense of self. This blog breaks down why the mental load feels so overwhelming, how trauma and perfectionism amplify it, and how therapy can help you find relief, set boundaries, and reconnect with you. If you’re feeling invisible, burned out, or resentful, this one’s for you.

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Hormonal Shifts and Mood Changes After Birth: What’s Really Going On
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Hormonal Shifts and Mood Changes After Birth: What’s Really Going On

Why do I feel so emotional after birth and again after weaning?

This blog breaks down the real, biological reasons behind postpartum mood swings, anxiety, and emotional crashes after stopping breastfeeding. If you’ve been wondering whether what you’re feeling is “normal,” this post will help you understand what’s happening in your body and how therapy can support your healing.

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Postpartum Anxiety: Symptoms, Triggers + Coping Strategies
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Postpartum Anxiety: Symptoms, Triggers + Coping Strategies

Struggling with constant worry and racing thoughts after having a baby? You’re not alone. Postpartum anxiety is a common but often overlooked condition that can make early motherhood feel overwhelming. In this blog post, we’ll explore the symptoms of postpartum anxiety, common triggers, and practical coping strategies to help you regain a sense of balance. Read on to learn how to navigate this challenging time with support and self-care.

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Healing with Therapy for Postpartum Depression
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Healing with Therapy for Postpartum Depression

Postpartum Depression can look different in each mom- for some it is filled with more anxiety, for others it’s a feeling of overwhelm and hopelessness, and others report a lack of feeling and general sense of disconnection. Postpartum is also very common, with 1 in 5 moms experiencing it. Postpartum depression is treatable and you can feel better. Read on to learn more about Therapy for Postpartum Depression.

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Dark Thoughts in Postpartum
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Dark Thoughts in Postpartum

Having dark, scary thoughts in the postpartum time can feel really bad and alarming, but they are actually quite common. Read more about Intrusive thoughts during postpartum, how to cope with them and when to seek out help.

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What to Know About Birth Trauma
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What to Know About Birth Trauma

Giving birth is quite the experience to say the least. Unfortunately, about 45% of new moms experience birth trauma. Read on to learn more about Birth Trauma. If this is something you or someone you love has experience, please know that there is help available.

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The Essential Guide to Postpartum
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The Essential Guide to Postpartum

The postpartum time is certainly a huge transition and quite honestly, all that reading and preparing for baby probably did not address many of the common struggles that come up during this time. As a perinatal therapist for moms in the postpartum time, these are the common pain points of postpartum that I see with my clients, along with strategies to help you through them.

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Postpartum Support | What I Wish I Knew as a New Mom
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Postpartum Support | What I Wish I Knew as a New Mom

Becoming a mother is an amazing experience. It changes your life in every possible way. I thought I was more than ready to be a mom and for my postpartum experience, however, I was really thrown for a loop. Read on to learn more about getting Postpartum Support and the things I wish I knew as a new mom.

 

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Anxiety in Motherhood: Strategies for Coping

Anxiety in Motherhood: Strategies for Coping

Motherhood and Anxiety.

Those two things seem to go hand-in-hand. Having a child amplifies all of your worries, concerns, and struggles. While anxiety is a normal part of motherhood and life, it can become a barrier to living the life we want. Read on to learn more about anxiety, how it can come up in motherhood and our children and when to know when to seek help.

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Is it Postpartum Depression or Baby Blues?
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Is it Postpartum Depression or Baby Blues?

The period of time after having a baby is intense with lots of ups and downs. Many moms report feeling more "emotional" with crying fits, feeling sad and overwhelmed, and increased conflict with their partners. This is often described as the "Baby Blues," however some moms will experience Postpartum Depression. How do you know if it’s you have the “Baby Blues” or something more, like Postpartum Depression? Read on to learn more.

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