When “Good Enough” Feels Like Failure: Understanding Perfectionism in Motherhood
Perfectionism doesn’t always look like chasing a perfect house- it often shows up as quiet self-pressure, guilt, and never feeling like you’re doing enough. In this post, I unpack where those high expectations come from, how they impact your well-being, and how therapy can help you find more self-compassion in motherhood.
Who Am I Now? Navigating Identity Shifts in Motherhood
“Who am I now?”
If you’ve found yourself asking this question since becoming a mom, you’re not alone. Many mothers feel a deep identity shift after birth- like parts of them have gone missing or no longer fit. This blog explores the emotional and psychological transformation of matrescence (yes, it’s a real thing!), why it feels so disorienting, and how you can begin reconnecting with yourself in this new season of life. Because you haven’t lost yourself- you’re becoming someone new.
EMDR for Moms: Heal from Your Childhood Trauma
Motherhood can stir up emotions you didn’t expect- anxiety, overwhelm, guilt, and even grief. For many moms, these feelings are rooted in unresolved childhood trauma. In this blog post, we explore how EMDR therapy can help you heal from the emotional wounds of your past so you can feel more grounded, connected, and confident in your role as a mother. If you’re carrying the weight of perfectionism, people-pleasing, or emotional reactivity, this gentle and empowering guide is for you.
Sleep Deprivation in Postpartum: How to Cope When You’re Beyond Exhausted
Postpartum sleep deprivation isn’t just “part of the job”- it can shake your sense of self, hijack your emotions, and make even the smallest tasks feel impossible. If you’re deep in the fog of exhaustion, this blog post is for you. I’m breaking down why sleep feels so out of reach in early motherhood and sharing therapist-backed strategies to help you rest, regulate, and feel more like you again. Because you deserve support- not just survival.
Anxiety vs. OCD in Motherhood: What’s the Difference and Why It Matters
Anxiety and OCD are both common in early motherhood but they can feel confusing and easy to mix up. This blog explores the key differences between anxiety vs. OCD, including how they show up in postpartum moms, what intrusive thoughts really mean, and why the right diagnosis matters. You’ll also learn about lesser-known forms like Relationship OCD and Pure “O” OCD, how trauma and perfectionism play a role, and what treatments like CBT, EMDR, and ERP can offer. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this normal, or is something wrong with me?”- this post is for you.
Treating Postpartum Depression Naturally: Gentle, Holistic Support for New Moms
You love your baby, but lately, you don’t feel like yourself. If you’re tearful, anxious, disconnected, or just getting through the day on autopilot, you’re not alone. Postpartum depression is real, and it’s more common than most people realize. The good news? You don’t have to suffer in silence and you don’t have to go straight to medication if that doesn’t feel right for you. In this post, I’ll explore how to treat postpartum depression naturally using gentle, research-backed tools that support both your emotional well-being and your nervous system.
The Mental Load Overload: Understanding How You Got Here
You didn’t start your relationship this way but somewhere along the line, you became the default parent, the household manager, the knower of all the things. Now you’re drowning in the mental load, and wondering how it got so heavy. This blog unpacks how seemingly “fair” partnerships shift over time, especially in motherhood, and why so many moms feel overwhelmed and unseen. If you’re tired of carrying it all, this post is for you- plus, learn how our new Mental Load Coaching for Couples can help you find balance and real support again.
The Mental Load Is Breaking Moms: What It Is, Why It Feels So Heavy and What You Can Do About It
Are you exhausted from being the one who “keeps it all together”? You’re not imagining it- the mental load moms carry is very real, and it’s taking a toll on your mental health, relationships, and sense of self. This blog breaks down why the mental load feels so overwhelming, how trauma and perfectionism amplify it, and how therapy can help you find relief, set boundaries, and reconnect with you. If you’re feeling invisible, burned out, or resentful, this one’s for you.
Emotional Regulation for Moms: How to Stay Grounded When Motherhood Feels Overwhelming
Motherhood brings out emotions you never expected- overwhelming love, exhaustion, joy, and frustration all tangled together. If you’ve found yourself snapping, shutting down, or feeling stuck in guilt after losing your temper, you’re not alone.
Emotional regulation, the ability to notice and respond to your emotions in a way that feels calm and intentional, is a skill every mom can build.
In this post, we’ll explore why emotional regulation feels so hard for moms, simple tools to help you find your calm, and how you can download our free guide: Emotional Regulation in Motherhood — A guide to understanding your triggers and finding your calm amidst the chaos.
Postpartum Anxiety: Symptoms, Triggers + Coping Strategies
Struggling with constant worry and racing thoughts after having a baby? You’re not alone. Postpartum anxiety is a common but often overlooked condition that can make early motherhood feel overwhelming. In this blog post, we’ll explore the symptoms of postpartum anxiety, common triggers, and practical coping strategies to help you regain a sense of balance. Read on to learn how to navigate this challenging time with support and self-care.
How Therapy Can Transform Your Motherhood Journey
Feeling overwhelmed as a new or seasoned mom is more common than you might think. In this article, we explore how therapy for moms can be a transformative journey- helping you overcome motherhood anxiety, reclaim your identity, and find balance amid the chaos. Discover how expert mom therapists use a holistic, brain–body approach to empower you with practical tools for managing stress, so you can embrace the joys of motherhood with renewed strength and clarity.
5 Overlooked Signs of Postpartum Anxiety (It’s Not Just Worrying Too Much)
Many new moms experience postpartum anxiety, but it’s not always just about worrying. From sleep struggles to intrusive thoughts, anxiety can show up in unexpected ways. Discover five overlooked signs of postpartum anxiety and how to find support.
All About Postpartum Rage
Feeling overwhelmed by intense anger after childbirth? You're not alone. Explore the realities of postpartum rage and find expert guidance to navigate this challenging phase.
Parental Burnout: Signs, Causes, and How to Recover
Parenting is rewarding, but it can also be exhausting. If you’re feeling emotionally drained, constantly overwhelmed, or detached from your role as a parent, you might be experiencing parental burnout. Learn the signs, causes, and effective ways to recover and restore balance.
Boundaries for Moms: Why You Struggle to Set Them and How to Start
If you’re a mom who’s constantly saying “yes” when you want to say “no,” this one’s for you. Boundaries can feel confusing, especially in motherhood- where everyone seems to need something from you. This compassionate guide will help you understand why boundaries feel so hard (hint: it’s not your fault), reflect on where your patterns come from, and start building limits that protect your energy without guilt. You deserve support, too.
Anxiety in Motherhood: Strategies for Coping
Motherhood and Anxiety.
Those two things seem to go hand-in-hand. Having a child amplifies all of your worries, concerns, and struggles. While anxiety is a normal part of motherhood and life, it can become a barrier to living the life we want. Read on to learn more about anxiety, how it can come up in motherhood and our children and when to know when to seek help.
Mindful Parenting: How to Stay Present and Connected in Motherhood
Mindful parenting is based on the concept of mindfulness.
Mindfulness is about focusing your awareness on the present moment and acknowledging your current feelings, thoughts and body sensations without putting any judgement on them.
Mindful parenting is about being present and intentional in your parenting efforts. Read on to learn more.
How to Create a Journaling Practice (Even as a Busy Mom)
Motherhood is overwhelming—journaling can help. This guide shares simple tips and prompts to help moms create a practice that supports mental and emotional health and connection.
Transitioning into Parenthood
Becoming a parent changes you in ways you never would have imagined. Here are some tips to help yourself as you enter this new amazing and equally terrifying stage- Parenthood!