When “Good Enough” Feels Like Failure: Understanding Perfectionism in Motherhood
Perfectionism doesn’t always look like chasing a perfect house- it often shows up as quiet self-pressure, guilt, and never feeling like you’re doing enough. In this post, I unpack where those high expectations come from, how they impact your well-being, and how therapy can help you find more self-compassion in motherhood.
Who Am I Now? Navigating Identity Shifts in Motherhood
“Who am I now?”
If you’ve found yourself asking this question since becoming a mom, you’re not alone. Many mothers feel a deep identity shift after birth- like parts of them have gone missing or no longer fit. This blog explores the emotional and psychological transformation of matrescence (yes, it’s a real thing!), why it feels so disorienting, and how you can begin reconnecting with yourself in this new season of life. Because you haven’t lost yourself- you’re becoming someone new.
The Mental Load Overload: Understanding How You Got Here
You didn’t start your relationship this way but somewhere along the line, you became the default parent, the household manager, the knower of all the things. Now you’re drowning in the mental load, and wondering how it got so heavy. This blog unpacks how seemingly “fair” partnerships shift over time, especially in motherhood, and why so many moms feel overwhelmed and unseen. If you’re tired of carrying it all, this post is for you- plus, learn how our new Mental Load Coaching for Couples can help you find balance and real support again.
Parental Burnout: Signs, Causes, and How to Recover
Parenting is rewarding, but it can also be exhausting. If you’re feeling emotionally drained, constantly overwhelmed, or detached from your role as a parent, you might be experiencing parental burnout. Learn the signs, causes, and effective ways to recover and restore balance.
Anxiety in Motherhood: Strategies for Coping
Motherhood and Anxiety.
Those two things seem to go hand-in-hand. Having a child amplifies all of your worries, concerns, and struggles. While anxiety is a normal part of motherhood and life, it can become a barrier to living the life we want. Read on to learn more about anxiety, how it can come up in motherhood and our children and when to know when to seek help.
Is it Postpartum Depression or Baby Blues?
The period of time after having a baby is intense with lots of ups and downs. Many moms report feeling more "emotional" with crying fits, feeling sad and overwhelmed, and increased conflict with their partners. This is often described as the "Baby Blues," however some moms will experience Postpartum Depression. How do you know if it’s you have the “Baby Blues” or something more, like Postpartum Depression? Read on to learn more.
Mindful Parenting: How to Stay Present and Connected in Motherhood
Mindful parenting is based on the concept of mindfulness.
Mindfulness is about focusing your awareness on the present moment and acknowledging your current feelings, thoughts and body sensations without putting any judgement on them.
Mindful parenting is about being present and intentional in your parenting efforts. Read on to learn more.
Transitioning into Parenthood
Becoming a parent changes you in ways you never would have imagined. Here are some tips to help yourself as you enter this new amazing and equally terrifying stage- Parenthood!